1 Strategy Women Must Employ To Snag A Man

download (12)Have you ever heard a guy say “I don’t know what I want” when it comes to dating. Don’t get me wrong – men are largely confused about women and don’t really know what they want until they find that a girl is half decent to talk to and be around and there is sufficient chemistry to back that up.

You may have even been dating or crushing on a man who said he wasn’t ready for anything serious at the moment or better yet told you that he wanted a woman who was stable and didn’t play games. Basically he told you that he didn’t want to be with ‘a crazy’, only for you to discover some weeks or months later that he was in a relationship with a woman who was the opposite picture of what he described – manipulative, jealous, irrational and in your opinion no good for him.

See a man may not exactly know what he wants or has just not found her yet however don’t be the women who makes the fundamental mistake of listening to what he

The Number 1 Reason Why Men Use Women

download (13)That’s it! I am left with no choice but to start a revolution!

This article is directed at all of the women out there who are into men, who fall quickly for new guy after new guy and find that they all do the same things:

1 – Act like Prince Charming to start with

2 – Disappear like a magic act after a month or 2

Back in the day – Pre World War II women got what they wanted from men far more often than the women of the 21st Century.

Sure society was different and for a man to marry a woman it was deemed ‘the right thing to do’. Times sure have changed.

However, while there were rogues around back then, my grandmother told me so, women knew a few tricks that women of today don’t. Those tricks, those keys, those secrets are the difference between getting a man you want and or getting done over time and time again by frogs.

The only reason why men get away with treating us like scum is because WE LET THEM!

This is where the revolution comes in.


How to Persuade Men to Get What You Want

download (11)Do you wonder what attracts and keeps guys interested? You must figure out exactly what HE needs in order to capture and retain his interest.

Figuring out what guys like isn’t easy. Right?

Wouldn’t you love to know what men like when it comes to women?

Quite a bit, it turns out. Read on to find out more…


As you may well know men are visual creatures. They love to look at us. Sometimes they do it without even realizing they are doing it!

So the dots may connect if you have every caught a previous partner staring at another woman and then acting like he didn’t know what you were talking about when you did it.

Men are designed to hone into women’s bodies which is exactly why you must make sure you utilize all possible strategies to make him notice yours!

This doesn’t mean dressing provocatively or exposing a lot of skin but more rather wearing clothes that compliment your figure, taking care of your body and holding your body with confidence.

Using physical appeal at any stage of the relationship is a winner.


Couples Commitment Ceremony

download (10)Marriage, they say, ‘Is an Institution’,

One that was created a very long time ago

for various reasons that made perfect sense to

those that were

Part of that old world view.


in most cultures, married women had very few rights of their own,

being considered, along with the family’s children,

the property of the husband

as such,

They could not own or inherit property,

or represent themselves legally.

Over time,

A lot of these ‘Non-Equanimeous’ perspectives have been Transcended…

Another big step up In the

Evolution of Human Developmental Stage Growth

is the Transcendence – From

Myth, Magic & Miracle Based Ethnocentric ‘religious’ views…

And moving up to the next stages:

Modern Rational

Post-Modern Rational

Pluralist (every one is equal)

To Finally…


Beginning the 2cd-Tier of Human Conscious Awareness

Of which about 5% are currently now operating at.

There are some very valid points to consider with stage growth,

You can’t skip stages…

At best you can accelerate your growing process…


for a lot of people,

They are stuck in a ‘traditional’ Spiritual rut.

The downside of ‘traditions’

is that

it keeps a lot of Progressive Higher Perspectives


Way back ‘when’…

No specific ritual was prescribed for celebrating a marriage:

“Marriage vows did not have to be exchanged in a church,

nor was a priest’s presence required.


We Seem to Lack Commitment in Life Today!

images (5)There is an old expression what you put into something is what you get out of it. I don’t believe that is always true today, particularly in employment. Nobody is indispensable, but in earlier times employers made more commitments to employees like full-time hours, raises based on their performance, and I had heard of people working their way up from mailroom to President. That doesn’t happen that much in these times, so why should an employee fully commit to a job that is not secure. Even worse many can’t meet their financial obligations. In the old days of Mom and Pop businesses, employees worked side by side with employers. It wasn’t about education but dedication, having mega corporations as the main employers in this country, takes away so many people’s successful futures.

Our fast paced world doesn’t provide enough time to make commitments as easily as before. How many times have you been in the middle of a serious life conversation with someone, their cellphone goes off, and like Pablo’s dog they have to answer it, right in the middle. People to me can’t

Committed Relationships – Tips For Keeping Your Love Strong

download (9)In a relationship, time can work either for you or against you. When we meet someone we like, we put a lot of effort in showing the best of ourselves. When we fall in love, everything seems perfect. After some time, reality kicks in and we start to see lifeĀ“s true colours. Even though our relationship is bound to change, it does not mean it has to change for worse. Here are some tips on how to take advantage of time and keep your love strong.

Create good memories. Try to do nice things when you spend time together. This is what you will want to remember. Fights and discussions are not nice memories and will not help your relationship in any way. Cooking and cleaning can become fun memories with a little imagination. If you spend more quality time together, doing things that you both enjoy, you will want to spend more time together in the future.

Communicate your feelings or your worries when needed. This can avoid misunderstandings, conflicts and problems in the future. Communication is essential for a happy and healthy relationship.

Why Men Commit To Some Women And Not To Others

images (4)Many women believe that men are anti-commitment. That’s in fact not the case. Men want love and a relationship like women do, but what they fear is being in a relationship where there is little to no attraction and intimacy. They are scared of being trapped in a partnership with the wrong woman.

Let’s take a step back here. Firstly, in order for a man to potentially commit to a woman he first has to be connected to his heart. Young men, especially between the ages of 18-30 are experiencing peak levels of testosterone, Testosterone to a man = selfish and ego. Unless a young man experiences certain powerful life-changing events that make him mature faster, he won’t get in touch with his heart until his mid to late 30s. It is evident when a man is connected to his heart because he will be genuinely sincere, thoughtful, paternal and loving. You can just tell that he is sincere by the depth of his conversations and especially through his actions.

Sometimes a man will run hot and cold. What he is experiencing is confusion. He

6 Traits Men Want In A Long Term Partner

download (8)What do men want in a long term partner? I am sure you have some idea but I am about to clarify what men seek in a potential wife…

1. Dependability

Men want a woman who is faithful, reliable and trustworthy. They are looking for a loyal mate who will have their back and not stray elsewhere. Men need a good reason to commit to women, especially given the life-cycle of most marriages these days so it’s no wonder that being a dependable partner is highly revered by men.

2. Emotionally stable

Men who a ready to settle down want a partner who has a high level of emotional intelligence. Physical attraction is only part of it and not as important to men as you may think. Men will only make a safe investment in a woman who is grounded and who will not make their life more difficult or potentially threaten their freedom.

3. Intelligence

This next factor is really important and highly undervalued. Guys want to be able to connect on an intellectual level to a woman. They adore women who have something between their ears

Modern Partnership Vow “To Not Suffocate My Truth”

download (7)Do you find yourself programmed to believe relationships are meant to last forever? Are you in a romantic partnership following the “Till death do us part” vows? What happens when one or both individuals have a shift in values, sexual needs, or personal desires over a period of time?

Do we honor our initial promises to each other, pushing our needs aside, losing ourselves in an effort to hold onto that relationship as we know it? Or do we acknowledge these changes, lay the cards on the table and talk about how we can best support each other?

I believe, “relationship” is one of the highest forms of spiritual practice. Now, consider how many relationships you have at this time in your life. You have a relationship with your family members, friends, employers, lovers, and yourself. In each relationship you learn to give and receive… you find your growth edge.

Your growth edge is where you explore all the most intricate pieces of your being, and have an opportunity to learn the most extraordinary things about yourself.

What an incredible journey in life and love!

In our hearts

A Relationship With Spiritual Power and Commitment to God

images (3)This is a subject that many are already familiar with, but this article is about which if any God one has a relationship with. If one is religious than the chances are they are led astray by ‘faith’ and their contact is powerless. If, on the other hand, they are linked to the Spirit of the Universe then their relationship is with the Divine. In the third case one is concerned with a relationship to a physical person and gives no thought to the little voice within that wants to be heard.

Physical love is precious and it is a gift from God. To be cuddled, stroked, pampered, and have someone to care for is what life is mostly about. But it comes to an end and sometimes with drastic consequences. Women become victims of violence and men often take their own lives and sometimes that of their children as they struggle to overcome their loss.

Women who lose out may go into a deep depression and the children are ripped apart by fighting parents who seek custody of them. One must wonder then what

You Want A Relationship, But Are You Emotionally Unavailable?

images (2)Do you believe that you are fully available for a relationship and that you have just not met the right person? Or, do you find yourself in love with someone who is emotionally unavailable or isn’t in love with you, and you’re convinced you are available for the relationship?

Yvette, who is in that situation, wrote the following to me:

I am in love with a man, who is my friend, and who is not attracted to me in a sexual way. His rejection in this respect causes me great pain and sadness. It is very difficult for me to let go of the expectations and hopes that he might love me and want me in this particular way. I am afraid that these expectations and my pain might ruin this friendship. I would like to get rid of the expectations that he might fall in love with me, but I don’t know how. I would like to accept this situation as it is. I am also horribly jealous if he shows interest in other girls.”

While I’m certain that Yvette believes she is available for

Ensuring My Man Will Stay Through Good And Bad Times

download (6)When it come to ensuring that a man will stay and commit to any given women. And to be HAPPY with in “one Love” there are some basic thing you should become understanding to.

Men are Manly being’s, and women are womanly being’s!.

You can’t just think that the guy that you connect with, who you feel the prospect of a future, that he will always know what you are feeling or thinking.

I say that because it is an ENORMOUS common reason for men becoming so frustrated and simply taking off and forgetting about you in an instant!…

You see for example, in my own life I was with a girl who had all the gifts of attraction, I mean “yeah” she was sexy. Her personality was pretty good also, and we dated for roughly 7 months casually.

Then thought we should have a go at living together. And this is when everything gets the “PERSONAL” test, and after just the first couple of weeks. I felt that I had to be a mind reader to keep her happy about so much stuff, it was doing my

Crossing Over – The Inter-Cultural Divide

imagesCross cultural marriages are on the rise. Inter-ethnic, inter-racial, international—call it what you like.

So how you cope with it? How do you manage your and your family’s lifestyle and cultural beliefs around cross-cultural alliances?

Marriage in any culture is a marriage between families. No matter how a marriage is completed, whether it is an arranged alliance, a love marriage, a marriage of companionship… you are married into each other’s families. So you not only acquire a spouse, you acquire his or her family and along with it, their cultural beliefs, biases, prejudices, preferences and concepts.

Let me give you an example.

Let us say you are in someone’s living room and are all seated. An elderly person enters the room. What do you do?

If you are in a Caucasian home, you smile, look the person in the eye and may nod your head.

If you are in a Japanese home and did that, you just insulted the entrant!

In a Japanese home, you rise and bow your head. You do not look the person in the eye.

This is just one small example of a simple cultural attribute that is

7 Ways Basketball and Relationships Are the Same!

download (4)The love story between the Cleveland Cavaliers and its star player is amazing, yet full of ups and downs.

Over these three years, there were a lot of situations that could have caused them to give up and go onto something else, but they pressed on to become the 2016 NBA champions.

If you want to win in your relationships, you can learn a lot from the Cleveland Cavs.

Their journey is very similar to how relationships can be in many cases, and here’s how:

1) The Big Break Up. Many years ago, the star player chose to leave Cleveland to try something new. At times in our relationships, we fall out with the one we love. We tend to walk away in hopes of finding something better. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn’t.

2) Humility. In order for the team to work, the star player had to humble himself and make the decision to come back to a team he had left many years before. When you’re in a relationship, humility is a must. You must be willing to admit when you’re wrong and at times

We Owe Our Success To God

images (1)Have you ever tried to help someone you loved, yet time after time, they rejected your help or your love? I have. It’s a tough thing to do, but love keeps you pushing forward, helping all you can because your concern for that person will not allow you to quit. I can think of two people whom I gave many years to, trying over and over to help and stay true to them. Yet, over and over again I was hurt or rejected. As the years went on, I found myself farther and farther away from the one who continually rejected me. To the point where today, I don’t really have much contact with them anymore. This is a natural response for any mortal I suppose. We back away if we are not wanted.

Could this also be true of God? I believe that God is so much greater than us. We cannot comprehend His love for us. His love for us is not dependent upon what we do or how we act. He has the ability to love at a level we cannot

Chemistry Vs Commitment – Will Passion Die or Thrive?

download (3)With sexual chemistry, you come alive in the presence of another person. What if that person isn’t your partner?

With a strong commitment, you protect your relationship from tempting threats that steal power and passion from your intimate connection.

Do you need to strengthen your commitment and chemistry with your partner?

Find out with this Love Test. Answer each question YES or NO.

Do I complain or criticize my partner’s flaws, instead of complimenting their strengths?

Do I invest more energy and time in my work than I do with my partner?

Do my favorite activities exclude my partner?

Do I have erotic thoughts about someone outside of my relationship?

Do I avoid making love with my partner and deny us the benefits of sexual healing?

Do I talk negatively about my partner to others?

Does someone other than my partner lift my spirits and inspire my greatness?

Do I act moody or grumpy around my partner?

Do I place my needs ahead of my partner’s and the needs of our relationship?

Do I feel that my partner can’t make me happy?

How did you score?

Each YES reveals attitudes and actions that steal power and passion from

If Your Man Does These, He Madly Loves You

download (5)Love relationships are the blessings of God. Every relation has a story and each love story involves two true lovers. If you really want to know whether your man madly loves you or not, you can as well have a glance at these following points that will definitely help you understand that he is madly in love with you.

  1. He constantly gazes at you and into your eyes: Well, this one is a sign that he truly loves you from the bottom of his heart! A man who dearly loves a woman will always try to look into her eyes off and on but constantly.
  2. He loves to forgive you: If your man ca not stay angry with you for a long period of time, and it is he who first apologizes to you, then it can be safely concluded that he is madly in love with you.
  3. He is always cheerful and glad when he sees you: This is an indication that your man definitely loves you. When your man becomes happy on seeing you, it is confirmed that he truly loves you.
  4. He uses ‘we’

A Better Understanding of Black and White Differences

download (2)Politicians who state that there is no black or white anymore when it comes to skin colour are fooling themselves and taking a stand that is outside of reality. To be born black is to know discrimination, racial prejudice, hate, and rejection. The problem is that what they face who are ‘coloured’ is probably not much different to what women face because they are female. The more intelligent among them the worse their situation becomes.

That gives me insight into what they must feel and how and why the prejudice against them exists. It doesn’t matter what country one is in the feelings are the same and the question is why? There is resentment and jealousy on both sides and an inner voice that overrides common sense.

My reincarnation and knowledge that we have all lived before may provide some answers. Job 5:19-22 states that we have returned seven times until now when we are in the last days. In Isaiah 25:19 it states that the graves will give up their dead and this clearly defines a return of all people. Within is a little

Cross Cultural Questions After Australian Election

downloadThe extraordinary results of the July 2nd, 2016, election in Australia has divided the nation in more ways than one. Not only have the people produced what may be a hung parliament, that is neither of the major parties can rule in their own right without the help of minor parties or independents, but it has also brought back a debate on multi-culturalism. That is something most are forced to accept even though it is not their preferred state.

Many years ago when a student at the University of New South Wales in Sydney it was my argument for the end of the White Australia Policy (WAP)that the then Prime Minister, Robert Menzies, acted upon. He sent three ministers to see how my proposition would work. He then largely implemented it.

The facts are Australia is a young and prosperous nation and it has high status in the eyes of many, especially those who are looking for a safe place to settle. Since the end of the WAP we have been open to people from all countries, religions, and backgrounds. Successive governments have watered down the

How To Talk To Parents About Interracial Relationships

download (1)Love is a wonderful thing and it can make the world a beautiful place to live in. This is the reason many are looking for love and if you have not found yours yet, then maybe it is time to look outside the box so to speak. Dating someone from a different race is not only exciting, but it opens up a new world for you to discover. Although interracial dating is common today and are widely accepted in the society, one has a long way to in terms of family acceptance especially if one’s parent’s do not approve of such relationships.

Overcoming Interracial Relationship Problems

Dating someone of a different color is a sensitive topic for some society especially those who strictly follow their culture and tradition. It can also be a big dilemma for one raised under these concepts and questions like “What their parents will think about the relationship?” and “What would others might think about them?” Many who date outside of their own race often have fears that their family will react negatively and would reject the relationship.

There are plenty of